So it was totally happening, and
then it probably wouldn’t happen, and then it definitely wasn’t going to happen.
After that, it was maybe going to happen, and then it happened... Camp AGBASSA
was a slow, painful planning process, amounting to a quick, fun three days and
nights.
When funding for the girls’ camp
fell through, I admitted my fault to the camp planning committee (really just
me and Marie-Elise, and then later her visiting French friend, Monique). I
asked to try again later in the year when we were more prepared and eligible
for Peace Corps aid, but the Beninese optimism that “it will happen” and
“someone will help us,” (that’s another blog post for another time) was somehow
irresistible to us all. So there we were, 24 hours before the camp, with 30 middle-school-aged
girls invited, and not a dollar to our cause…
Normally, Peace Corps gives a
community camp 4 years to become financially independent, weaning them from an
initial 75% aid, to moral support. Alas, a fully community funded, first-edition,
five day overnight camp was slightly stupid and atrociously ambitious. But Marie-Elise is a go-getter, and I’ve
perfected my go-with-the-flow attitude here, and so we managed to scrape by for
three days & nights on donations of mosquito nets and sleeping mats, sacs
of corn or rice or onions, and again, the French friend. Only 18 of the girls
showed up, but so did only half the number of desired counselors, so it did
somehow all work out. Eventually, though often after-the-fact, the donations
and acknowledgements of the solicited community participants did finally roll
in; we received 20 sleeping mats after one night had already passed and a sac
of rice and several monetary donations on the last day of camp – better late
than never.
It was all so Beninese: nothing
ran as scheduled and no one came on time; nothing was practiced or prepared
ahead of time; the most money was spent on a decorative banner and certificates
of completion; adults didn’t freak out when kids were “unsupervised” or got
sick, and kids entertained themselves and didn’t want to go home. Many sessions
were replicas of the Beninese education system – a series of lectures in which
kids don’t ask and aren’t asked questions, rather they repeat or write on the
board whatever the teacher said. But I did my best to make it less like school
and create a safe space to talk about all the things a young girl needs some guidance
on, from goals and obstacles to relationships and health, and hopefully the
girls did leave with something they didn’t have before (besides a misprinted
T-shirt with some Caucasian newlyweds’ faces on the front, one of Monique’s
contributions – we took what we could get).
And even though it really was a
po-dunk version of a camp (nowhere near my days at Sherman Lake, or St. Mary’s,
or Walden – or maybe not even Mrs. Wolf’s preschool art camp…) it was an
opportunity that some girls wouldn’t have had: to take a break and do some
reflection and hopefully gain some knowledge and confidence. The name of the
camp, AGBASSA, means “within me” (though that’s a twice removed translation,
Wemε à
French à
English, so the sense isn’t quite the same), and on the last day we marched
around village, telling the community about what we accomplished this week, and
singing about what’s great about being a young girl.
This is the first project I’ve
completed in village that feels like a success, like I’ve participated in
something lasting and worthwhile. I was so proud of my campers at the end of
three days, at how much they seemed to learn and grow and become proud of
themselves. But I was even more proud of Marie-Elise and the women’s group that
supported the camp. The best part is that I actually did so very little, and I
know the camp could (and hopefully will) continue long into the future, without
my presence. I’m already looking forward to AGBASSA 2014!
Dormitories for 6em (7th grade) and 5em (8th grade) girls
From misprinted wedding t-shirts, to reprinted camp t-shirts...
The women who made the camp possible!
One of the songs the girls sang while marching through the village: "We're going to the ends of the Earth. Camp AGBASSA will never perish!" They also sang about keeping a joyful heart (the meaning of AGBASSA), and maintaining their rights to be safe, innocent, young girls. My favorite part was the chanting: "Young girls - fight! fight! fight! Without women: no nation, no development. Women - they exist too!"
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